Wednesday, December 25, 2013

My Huge Clock - Humour in Hospital #4

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Before you get all worked up, re-read the title. 
As it is Christmas today, I thought I'd share the best gift I'd ever gotten. 

You see, in hospital, while getting my treatment (i.e. chemotherapy and radiation), I'd often wake up with intense pain or nausea, often finding myself drenched in sweat. And every time that happened, I got scared.  

But the worst thing about that was that I'd wake up in the middle of night and not know whether I'd had 5 hours or 5 minutes of sleep... not know whether the doctors or blood collectors would be coming in soon, giving me ample time to sleep, or if they were hours away. 
I couldn't help but panic when that happened. 

I used to always complain about this. But one day my uncle overheard me. And he thought up an ingenious solution for this problem. 

He set out to get me a clock. 

This is what he got me...


To this day, I can remember my jaw dropping as he unveiled this masterpiece. And never again did I feel that panic when I'd wake up at night. Instead I'd be left smiling at the most ridiculous gift I'd ever gotten. 

The clock itself was a godsend. For the first time, I was lifted out of the confusion that is hospital, where I'd be stuck inside 4 walls, left to sit in a constantly chilled 24 degrees Celsius without any knowledge of what was going on in the outside world. I wouldn't worry about whether or not I should bother to get back to sleep. I was, for the first time, in power in hospital. 

But, to be honest, I think the best thing about this gift was the little thrill and that suppressed giggle I'd have every time a nurse burst into the room and said;

"My Nikhil! What a large CLOCK you have!"

Merry Christmas everyone. 
Wish you and your families all the best for the next year, and hope this can help put a smile on you or your loved ones' faces.

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Saturday, December 21, 2013

We're close to an AIDS cure, with the help of BMTs.

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HIV/AIDS is a scary condition. More than 35 million people live with it today. More that many have died at its hands, as of 2012. To this day, 1.5 million people are dying because of it every year, in 2005 that number was 2.2million. And more than that are being infected every year. 


It affects 1/20 people in sub-Saharan Africa. 
And right now, there is no cure.

HIV Virus Spreading:

There are many myths about this - but there are only 3 routes of the virus actually spreading. 

1) Through sexual contact, which is why there is a huge negative stereotype and discrimination of patients with this disease. The chances of this can be significantly reduced through the use of protection, by providing said protection and through education.

2) Through contamination by bodily fluid, which occurs rarely by blood transfusion (a risk as low as 0.00002%, or 1 in 5million, though in less developed countries the screening is less efficient and thus it remains a large way of spreading), needle stick injuries or exposure to infected blood on skin (also a very low chance of it actually infecting you) or through sharing of drug needles. Aggressive treatment 48 - 72 hours after therapy can drastically reduce the chances of infection as well.  

3) Mothers can pass it on to their babies, though the chances of this occurring can be drastically reduced if you get access to programs which reduce this vertical transmission. This lowers the chances of getting the disease through this route from the current 25% by 92 - 99%.  

There ARE treatments now for patients who have HIV/AIDS. Treatments that have made the condition a chronic one in some parts of the developed world. 

But there is no cure, yet. 
And not everyone can get these treatments...
And the average life expectancy for people from infection with the HIV virus until death is  only 9 - 11 years. 

Current Treatments:

The HIV virus itself has a few different variants, but they are all retroviruses. AIDS, acquired immune deficiency syndrome, occurs after a few months after HIV infection and causes patients to become less and less able to fight infections. These infections, along with higher chances of developing cancers, are usually the cause of death in HIV/AIDS patients.

Antiretroviral therapy can stop the disease from progressing as quickly and prolong life, when these therapies can be accessed. Highly active antiretroviral therapy (HAART) is a combination of these drugs, working through different mechanisms, which together have made HIV/AIDS a chronic condition for millions. This, when combined with treatment of infections and screening for cancers.

However, it is estimated that 12 million of the 34million sufferers of HIV/AIDS can't even access these medications, and many of the remaining 22million cannot take them daily, as is needed. Missing doses can confer resistance to this therapy. And ongoing antiretroviral therapy has many serious side effects on the rest of the body, especially the heart, brain and kidneys, and a list of these can be seen here.

You may have heard last year of a baby who was "cured" of HIV infection with aggressive treatment with this therapy and there are 14 French patients who doctors reported had a similar low rate of disease in the body when they stopped taking these drugs. These patients still have HIV infected cells in the body though, and it may not remain that way in the long run, but it offers hope where there was none before. 

This therapy may have been inspired by the original Berlin patient, who was functionally cured (have no side effects and a very small rate of infected cells) of HIV/AIDS for the first time in history in 1998. He was put on antiretroviral drugs as treatment, as well as a cancer drug not usually known to treat HIV/AIDS, but came off it. It is not known why this happened though, and with only 14 other cases of a functional cure after stopping these drugs having been reported in France, it's not considered a curative option as such. 


Where Bone Marrow Transplants Come In:

The second Berlin Patient however was different. Timothy Ray Brown was diagnosed with HIV/AIDS in 1998. He developed AML (Acute Myeloid Leukemia, what I had) in 2006. His doctors arranged for him to have a bone marrow transplant to treat the leukemia.  

There is a mutation present in the genes of an estimated 4 - 16% of the European population on the CCR5 gene (CCR5 is a protein on the surface of white blood cells - blood cells responsible for fighting off infections, but HIV1 often uses this to target and enter immune cells of the body from which point it progresses) which confers higher immunity from being infected with HIV/AIDS, and total immunity if you have the allele (which occurs if you are homologous for the mutation, that is, if both your mother and father passed it on to you). Timothy Brown was lucky enough to have a matched unrelated donor (read more about bone marrow transplants here) and even luckier to have one who had a homologous CCR5 gene mutation. 

After his marrow was ablated (completely killed off) and the donor's haematopoietic stem cells (cells which make blood) were infused and they engrafted (began to make cells), within months there were no detectable levels of HIV virus in his tissues. And to this day, his CD4 T cell count remains high (HIV infection reduces these counts), despite being off antiretrovial therapy, and only very minute levels by the most sensitive tests can detect any HIV in his tissue. His doctors insist these are actually dead HIV cells. They're probably right, as with that mutation, there's no real way for HIV to enter and infect other host CD4 T cells. 

Thus, he was the first person to be cured of HIV/AIDS.

The others I discussed above are considered in remission, and it is not known whether or not the disease may return for them.

Unfortunately, though, the chances of this happening for every HIV/AIDS patient is extremely low, as not only do you have to have a perfect HLA match with another person, they have to also have such that homologous mutation, only present in a maximum of 2% of the European population. And also, bone marrow transplants are often painful, expensive, risky procedures and with HIV/AIDS now considered a chronic condition (though a median survival of 9 - 11 years if you're infected early and not getting proper therapy  is pretty low - this number skyrockets to 43 years with proper therapy), it isn't seen as a good option for curing the disease.


So How Can This Case Lead To A Cure?

Even though the chances of getting such a match is very low, and even though BMTs are a heavy handed curative option, scientists are still using this case to think of cures for other patients. 

Antiretroviral drugs are very expensive, and currently, about a third of patients who have HIV/AIDS don't even have access to them, yet alone continue to stay on the medication. 

And drugs which target the interaction between CCR5 and the disease and block it aren't likely to be successful in most patients either (though they can reduce symptoms and delay onset of AIDS), as there are other avenues for the disease to spread.

So scientists are looking to using the CCR5 delta 32 mutation, which Brown had in his transplant, to create a curative option. Unfortunately, we aren't advanced enough to consider genetic engineering as a cure yet (though this is changing, it's been done on mice to treat haemophilia: click here : and is being considered in patients, as you'll read later), but we can still use this information to create other avenues of treatment. 

A trial started soon after Timothy Brown's famous case to allow patients to also be cured of the disease. The basic theory is to remove a patient's own T cells, modify them at the CCR5 gene to create CCR5 proteins with that desired delta 32 mutation, through the use of Zinc Finger Nucleases (proteins which can alter DNA sequences), and reinject these cells into the body to see the response.

Phase 1 and phase 2 studies (studies done to test safety and, to an extent, efficacy of treatment strategies) have been done so far with this approach, with promising results. 

Here is one phase 2 study which is complete:
http://clinicaltrials.gov/ct2/show/NCT00842634?term=806383&rank=1

And here's a link showing how current trials are being done. 

It's very interesting how they're using measures similar to a bone marrow transplant (ie immunosuppression like cyclophosphamide) to kill off old, quickly replicating T cells and allow the genetically modified ones to prevent infection with the HIV virus. There are phase 1 studies to determine whether or not these treatments are safe, where the number, or dosage, of T cells and the side effects of these are assessed. 

And phase 2 studies are occurring where a zinc finger nuclease is used in conjunction with immunosuppression to allow these T cells to flourish, as opposed to old ones that could still be infected; and finally taking patients off antiretroviral therapy to see the effect of the intervention. 

Even more excitingly, there are preclinical trials being done to see if this therapy can be done to haematopoietic stem cells (cells that make our blood) to make this a PERMANENT cure, rather than something that needs to be done regularly throughout life (possibly through something akin to an autologous bone marrow tranpslant. The reason why the therapy I talked about above will require constant reinfusion of modified T cells is because HIV can lurk in other types of cells such as macrophages and B cells which have small amounts of CD4 expressed on them too). This is pretty much GENETIC ENGINEERING. And they are expecting to file an investigational new drug application to the FDA sometime next year for this. If this occurs, and can be done for other mutations, this approach could possibly cure a lot of blood cancers too. 


So What Does A BMT Have To Do With It?

Remember, it was a bone marrow transplant which created this interesting new avenue of research into a cure. 
And because of this, we may be reaching a day where AIDS is something that can be cured. 


It may even have applications to other diseases, such as cancer, which we currently are struggling to cope with. New curative options can be explored if the haematopoietic stem cell application is accepted by the FDA as a new drug avenue, and may even mean the creation of better treatments for a lot of cancers (especially those of the blood). 

Even so, the treatment is still likely to be expensive (though not as much as ongoing treatment with antiretrovirals) and it will likely be years before it reaches a stage where it's widely available to the public. The question still remains: Will it be available to the millions living in poverty with this disease, who can't even get access to current therapy? Indeed, studies show that condoms are still the most cost effective way to reduce the spread of disease. 

But it's a step in the right direction. 


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Tuesday, December 17, 2013

To the most amazing people I know, Thanks.

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One person my father got a lot of strength from when I was diagnosed with cancer was my brother. 

His reaction to the news that I had a tiny chance of surviving, hinged on a risky procedure which couldn't even guarantee a better outcome, yet alone success, was immediate. And gave him, and me, the hope we needed to carry on. 

Instead of breaking down, or crying, like my parents and I had done, he immediately asked, 
"So what can I do? He can take my marrow if he needs it."


Immediately. Without even knowing what that meant for him. 

Not only was he looking toward the future and reminding my father that a small chance is still just that - a chance - he was willing to do his all to make sure I made it, no matter what the cost. 


I'm blessed to have such an amazing brother.

Now imagine a complete stranger willing to do that for you.

Well... I've been blessed with that too.

And not only once - but twice. 

To be fair to my brother, I guess my donors knew what they were getting into. That it wasn't nearly as bad as it sounded. A bone marrow transplant often (in over 90% of cases) doesn't even involve the bone marrow for the donor - the process is not too dissimilar to giving blood actually. 

And joining the bone marrow donor registry - which is how you can potentially become a donor - is even easier. All they need is a sample of your DNA, in the form of a cheek swab or a blood test. 

So join a bone marrow donor registry today. 
In my eyes, you'll be just as amazing as my brother:


In Australia, joining the ABMDR requires a blood donation (which is actually a free health checkup, and can earn you money, click here for more info) and the signing of an extra form.
book a blood donation appointment here: https://www.donateblood.com.au/ready-to-donate/make-appointment


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Thursday, November 21, 2013

5 Reasons Why You Can't Afford NOT To Give Blood

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Through my journey to recovery, I've said thanks countless times; to my doctors, my nurses, my parents and my bone marrow donors. But the other day, I realised that I must have had at least a hundred bags of blood pushed into my veins at some point in my treatment. That's on top of the two very vital bone marrow transplants I had.

It's staggering the lengths our health system will go to in order to save a life.

I guess only after getting sick and really needing those bags of blood did I understand the importance of blood donation. After volunteering at the blood bank, I realised how much goes into just maintaining proper stocks.

Most blood products have to be collected on a regular basis, as they can't be frozen. In fact, all of them can't, except for plasma.

I'd been brought up with the idea, the common misconception, that giving blood is a painful, time consuming process. But in truth - it was anything but.

I watched people walk in out within twenty minutes, smiling the whole time. Only 6 of which was actually spent giving blood.
But despite all the great work that thousands of Australians, and those in other countries of course, do every day in donating blood - there is still a critical shortage. In fact Australia, as a country, still has to import blood to keep up with demand. 

Only 1/30 people donate. These guys often donate regularly and are the reason we don't have to import huge amounts of blood. People don't give because they're afraid of the procedure, because they don't think it's needed, or because they don't care.     

But what if it I told you that the only pain involved was the initial needle prick... pain no more than a blood test? That it only took 6 minutes. That there is indeed shortages in giving blood, and in the bone marrow donor registry, particularly in the minorities, and during winter when regular donors get sick. And what if I told you that there are pretty awesome benefits of giving blood too - you get paid, you reducing your risk of major diseases like cancer and heart attacks and you even lose quite a bit of weight losing weight. So you're not only saving 3 lives every time you donate... you're helping yourself too.

Well - all of these are true. And I hope these ideas will make you see that you can't afford NOT to give blood.

5) It's a great way to lose weight and you get a guilt free meal each time you do it!

Here's a video I made outlining the benefits of giving blood - and why you can't afford NOT to do it!


1) The necessity is ever present and ever increasing.

Everyone's heard this stat. 1/3 people will need blood in their life, yet only 1/30 donate regularly. Yet - what people don't understand is that, as a first world, developed country, we will never have a shortage of blood as we are rich enough to buy blood in times of shortages. Their health systems suffer and people literally die when they don't get access to the blood they need and to boot... that money doesn't come from nowhere. We pay for it. Through our taxes. 

Blood donations have to be constant. As I said before, you can't freeze whole blood or platelets. And during cold and flue season in particular, regular donors are often sick and can't donate - so it's always needed and not something you can or should put off.

The increase in the amount of bone marrow transplant procedures done, as doctors realise it is a viable method for treating a variety of autoimmune conditions, such as diabetes, scleroderma and even AIDS, as well as blood cancers like mine, means that demand for bone marrow donors is higher than ever before. But the registry still remains sparse, meaning many people will not get a second chance at life, one that I did. Despite the scary name, over 95% of people who get called up to donate marrow (a 1/400 chance of that even happening) never actually have their marrow invaded. And joining the registry, only a small blood test, or a swab of the cheek. I'll explain how it works more in the next section.




Some cultures in particular lag behind others in regards of joining the registry, and giving blood. People of Indian, Asian, Black or Middle-Eastern descent in particular have much lower rates of participation on this front. This pie chart above, based on the American Bone Marrow Donor Registry, demonstrates this shortage for Asian and African-Americans in particular. 

A lot of this is due to cultural beliefs that blood is related to male virility, but a much larger part of this is due to laziness or being afraid of the actual procedure. Well, hopefully, the next point will change your mind about that.

2) It's easier than you think and involves little risk to the giver.

Many people relate the process of giving blood to intense pain and a lot of sacrifice on behalf of the donor. While it is a very noble thing to do, it is not something that people should be afraid of. 

Did you know, whole blood donations are done in 6 - 10 minutes?
Did you know that the only pain involved is the initial jab from the needle, not from the blood leaving the arm?
And did you know that a vast majority (over 95%!) have absolutely no side effects from giving blood?

I won't kid you, the needle is larger than most. But the fact that you're required to drink a litre of water before donating, and the fact that you've got the best phlebotomists (the fancy word for blood takers) working on you means your chances of having severe pain from a blood donation are very small. In fact, in his greater than 20 years experience in donating blood, my father has only had one "two-arm-specials," where they had to jab him twice. IN OVER 200 DONATIONS! I've had a MUCH higher rate of blood takers missing veins in my 3 years of treatment, that's for sure... That statistic is a true testament to the skill these guys have.


Here's a picture to put it in perspective. The one they use in blood samples is the blue or purple one standing up. The one they use in taking blood donations is the light blue or black one lying down. Yeah, it's a little bigger, but when you know that the pain only lasts an instant, not throughout the whole donation, it doesn't make much of a difference.


Relaxing during a blood donation. Over 200 (300 now since I wrote this) done by this man alone. 

Joining the bone marrow donor registry doesn't involve extra pain. In fact - NEVER does someone actually take a sample of your bone marrow!

To join the registry in Australia, you have to donate blood and be under the age of 45, so that if a match is found, you don't get the unfortunate situation of a person refusing to donate their stem cells due to fear of the procedure. 
Even then, joining the registry only involves the taking of an extra 20mL of blood, which they use to figure out your "tissue type," which is used to match the recipient to a donor.

When you consider you're giving 475mL of blood at the time anyways, that isn't too much. To join up - next time you donate blood - ask to join the blood donor registry, and someone will hand you a form to do just that.

In America though - it's even simpler. It only involves buying a $5 kit and sending in a sample of your DNA taken from a cheek swab to join.

Once you're on the list - you're on there forever. 
And there's only a 1/400 chance of being a match for someone in your lifetime.

Even the procedure of donating marrow is nowhere near as painful as it sounds. In 95% of cases, it's actually STEM CELLS that you donate. The process takes 3 hours and basically involves taking blood from one arm, siphoning off the stem cells they need, and pumping it back into your other arm. Even if they need to take it from your marrow, you're under general anaesthetic, so it's nowhere near as painful as it sound (in fact, that 5% of people who do give via that means, often do so because they'd prefer to not feel anything and take a while to recover than have to take the other option).




For more info on how to join the registry, click here:


America/International:


3) It's a free health check-up for you. And it reduces your risk of heart disease, cancer and diabetes.

Every time you give blood, they need to assess whether your blood is healthy. So giving blood every 3 months is essentially a free, quick health check-up, at least for your blood counts (though I wouldn't recommend not getting physicals/check-ups done on this basis). It's a great way to catch diseases early.

Indeed, in my case, I would've known I had myelodysplasia syndrome (MDS) a long time before it developed into its deadly form, acute myeloid leukemia (AML). And MDS is much easier to treat than AML, which I found out the hard way.

I'm not saying that you're at risk of getting such diseases if you don't give blood, but you will definitely pick up on any abnormalities you may have earlier, making any conditions you may develop much more easily treatable if you do.

But early detection isn't the only benefit. Giving blood regularly has been shown to reduce the risk of heart attacks in men, as well as the ability to slow insulin resistance which leads to diabetes.  A study of nearly 3000 men in Finland showed those who did give blood regularly had an 88% lower risk of heart attack than those who didn't! That's HUGE! Donating blood has been known to reduce the buildup of toxic elements in your blood, including iron, making it not only a free detox, but a good way to reduce your risk of cancer!

4) You're missing out on a lot of benefits - including money.

While talking to a few donators at the marrow centre, I realised that a lot of them were there not only to give others a second chance at life, but also to help themselves fiscally.

A lot of the donors were actually school kids. I wondered why. Apparently, they came as often as they could over the year in order to miss a few periods of class. While having our high school students skipping class isn't an ideal situation, it's probably the best, most productive way you can procrastinate academically... I know I would've been on that bus every 3 months if I'd known that during school...
It's not just school kids who benefit. A good chunk of people donating were actually being paid to do so by their employers. There are many schemes and benefits out there where you can donate blood and actually be paid for the time it's taken out of your day by your employer. And I'm sure sitting in a chair for 10 minutes is much more preferable to slugging it out at work! Depending on where you live, there may be tax benefits eligible for donating. And indeed, in some countries, they even pay you for donating blood!

Here's a link to a video of how you can do this in America:



5) You miss a chance at losing weight and have a chance at eating great food without guilt.

When you donate blood, your body needs to replace what was lost. In fact, it takes at least 650 calories to replace a pint donation ofblood. That's the equivalent of going on a 5km run! Feel a split second of pain in your arm and sit on a chair for under 10 minutes or run 4 or 5 k's, you decide.


I know which one I'd choose...


Not only that - but after giving blood, you're given a chance to go crazy over a veritable buffet. At the centre where I volunteer (Liverpool) there are sausage rolls, pies, soups, milkshakes, coffees, toast and more - and it's served by chirpy, good looking volunteers (well, at least when I'm on duty).

When I'm feeling too lazy to cook one day, or stressed during my exams or indeed, if I was homeless, this would be where I'd be going to get a free meal. Indeed, the fact that you know your body will have to work to make up for what you've lost will mean you can have a guilt free meal. Be warned though - too much donating can result in a figure like this:



Dad going to TOWN on some freebies. Remember - this is only the COLD food they provide. Add to this sausage rolls, pies and milkshakes, and that's what's on offer every time you donate! Some centers have other meals on offer too, including lasagna, pies, and even give out additional meal vouchers for restaurants.


So - now that you're convinced that you've got to go out and give blood - remember these things:

Before giving blood, make sure you have a meal and drink a litre of water within 3 hours of donating. It's a requirement and you don't wanna be turned back on the day!
Try and include high iron foods and things like orange juice (which increases iron absorption) to ensure your iron and haemoglobin levels are sufficient. A tip from the nurses there - spinach and orange juice in the meal before you donate increases iron levels into the healthy range for those who find themselves turned back for being too low.
Make sure you haven't travelled to areas with infectious diseases in the past 3 months and make sure that you can prove any recent tattoos you've had were done in sterile situations.

After you're done giving blood - make sure you drink a glass of water before eating or drinking anything hot, just in case, as it reduces the already small chance of vaso-vagal syncope.

To find and make an appointment to give blood at your local blood donation centre, click here:

How can you help if you can't donate blood?

Unfortunately, a small chunk of women, and some men, can't donate blood as their iron levels are not high enough. And there are other reasons why people can't donate too.

But if you can't give blood and join the bone marrow donor registry, you can still spread the word and encourage others to do so! Whether you mention it next time you catch up with friends or just post it on your Facebook wall - these things all count and if it helps 1 extra person get into donating blood, well, you've already saved 3 lives!

If you are donating - make sure you "check in" on social media each time you give blood. Letting people know what you're doing is not boasting (even though it's definitely something you should be proud of) when it gets others to donate too!

You can also volunteer at the Red Cross like I do, either by helping out and giving snacks to the donors, or by driving a car or van that picks up donors. It looks great on your CV and you're just as vital a cog in the great machine as the donors themselves. Click here for more info.


Participating or donating to people in the World's Greatest Shave or events like the Leukaemia Foundation's "Light the Night Walks" also helps in a similar way.

Here's a speech I gave at the most recent Light the Night event about how I stayed happy during my treatment, and how the Foundation helped me during my treatment:



Other things you can do include donating to the Red Cross or to the Leukemia Foundation, which can be done through the links below. These organisations are trying to find a cure and save people from having to go through this pain in the first place! 

And make sure you share this with others and on your Facebook Walls so as many people as possible join up and so more lives can be saved.



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Sunday, November 17, 2013

Frustration. You New Normal Doesn't Have To Be A Bad Thing...

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I haven't posted anything on the blog in about 3 weeks now.

I've been through a rough patch...

Nearly 3 weeks ago now, I had a couple of seizures. I'd had a few before, if you've read my previous post on hallucinations, you'd know it was a result of PRES syndrome and that the weeks after the seizures were the scariest of my life. During that time, I'd question even the most mundane aspects of life, be hugely forgetful and would be confused by things, such as movie plots, that normally wouldn't phase me.

The day before I had these last seizures, I'd asked my doctor if the ones I had before could affect me over the long term. I'd been feeling for a while that my ability to memorize things had been compromised. I was finding it harder to understand things, and it became more and more evident as I started studying for exams that those previous seizures had impacted my capability to learn and remember things.  

Then, the next day, the seizures happened. I was put onto a maximum dose of anti-epileptic medications. And, almost straight away, my mind was REALLY affected. It made me feel fuzzy, unable to concentrate, confused and perpetually drowsy for the next few weeks. This time though, they couldn't even figure out what had caused the seizures. They'd just... happened... overnight and it was lucky I was sleeping next to a wall so my parents had heard me banging against it when I started convulsing and could come to my aid. And to make things worse, my exams were only a week away.

I was scared.

And I started doubting myself.

It seemed all my positive attributes, not only my brain and mental capability, but also my physicality and my looks, had taken a huge hit during my treatment.

It's made me wonder... what if this occurs forever?

What if my mind and my body will be affected for my whole life by all this?

 What if I never get back to what I used to be. What if this was my new normal?

Before, when I used to doubt myself about my losses in looks and physicality, I could always fall back to the fact that I was still smart to keep me happy and positive. But even that's been jeopardised by treatment...

Now I find myself really questioning all the struggles I've been through and all the effort I'd put in to get past them.

The strict control of my diet for months... what was that for? I wasn't losing any weight, I wasn't getting any fitter and I certainly wasn't starting to look like what I used to either.
The constant exercise I was doing? Why bother when I'd be going to hospital every two weeks where I'd lose all the minuscule gains I'd made? 7 months after my transplant and I can barely last 5 minutes in a game of basketball, yet alone get anywhere close to dunking. 
After being through so much, I guess I expected a bit of smooth sailing every now and then, or a surge in progress or SOMETHING to show for all the pain I'd put myself through. But it hasn't.

And it's... JUST... SO...  FRUSTRATING.


The frustration got me to a point where I was asking myself; what is the point in life? I mean we all go through it and go through our journeys... but what's it all for in the end? Our thoughts, feelings, emotions... in the end, aren't they all just a bunch of chemical reactions? Who cares about us and what we feel? In the long run, aren't we just tiny pieces of some huger puzzle that no-one knows the answer to? 

After a while of this confusion, I needed a way out. After a while, I opened up a browser and headed over to this blog and reread all the comments and messages about how it had helped people. I re-read the post about the lessons I'd learned from cancer. I decided to take my own advice. What I'd done before, I did once again for this newer... longer challenge.

I took a step back and looked at where I was objectively... almost as if I was someone else looking at my life. That pushed the anger and frustration into the background. Then I asked myself why I was feeling pissed off. Why I was getting depressed. 

That's when I realised that the frustration I was feeling; the negativity, the anger, the depression - that was all coming from ME. It was a product of MY MIND. Why was I getting angry then? What was it doing... other than making me more frustrated? 
There wasn't an answer to that question. Getting frustrated about something I couldn't help... that made no sense. 
Why not instead focus on the things I could control instead? 

For the first time in weeks... that haze of anger faded away. But there were still some things that bugged me.
And so I kept asking myself... why?


So the transplant and my treatment have ended up changing me for good.
Why should I let that make me feel down? It was something I couldn't control, and putting myself down for something I couldn't change was useless, and only harming myself.

Why was I getting down and depressed about that? First of all, were they eventhinking those things in the first place? Even if they were, why should what someone THINKS about me make me feel bad? Did I even know them? Even if I did,wouldn't getting down, negative and angry about it only hurtme? And probably make them happier?


So I wasn't as fit as before. 
Why should I get down about that? I could still work towards getting back to there. Yeah I couldn't get there quickly.. but losing weight and getting fit wasn't something that happened overnight for anyone, yet alone me. Because I knew it'd take time, I could give myself time to get there. My mentality was the best thing on my side in that battle... having getting back into basketball as a goal would be a great goal to keep me busy, that was for sure... (here's how I managed to do it over time. And how you  too can put the best thing on your side in the constant battle of staying healthy - your MIND). 

Indeed, why wasn't I happy, or proud about what I had done already? 
To come back from not being able to walk to being able to run around the suburb and play a few basketball games (not well I might add, but I did manage to play a few) is a HUGE achievement. Something that I should be proud of, something I could draw from later in life.


This "new normal" of mine... it wasn't something to adjust to. It was something far beyond what I had before. 

That version of me in the past, could he have gotten through what I have in the past 2 years or see life as clearly as I can now? Could he walk down the street, always comfortable in his skin? He did care about people, but could he feel what they had? Did he know what it was really like? He couldn't then. But I can now. And if you've been through hard times yourself, you can too (though trust me - you don't wanna wait to learn it the hard way). 

All the doubt I was having about life after all of this... I re-examined.

What was the purpose of life if all my work could get thrown away in an instant by my health? 
Even if our lives seemed meaningless, our feelings and thoughts still exist. And, if there is no other clear reason for us being here, why not make our purpose to leave this place in a better place than we found it, make others happy and enjoy ourselves in the process? The power we have to give happiness to others can never be taken away. And that, in the end, is what matters, and what lasts. 

Seeing the hundreds of thanks and messages of appreciation I'd gotten from others about my posts made me realise that the happiness I could give others from sharing my experiences was more rewarding than the superficial, fleeting moments of joy that good looks, money, power and fame could bring.

But despite seeing all this, losing some of my mental proficiency was still a scary prospect. Since finding out I had leukemia, I'd held on to a dream of someday becoming the guy who found or helped find the cure for cancers. But these seizures and the side effects I was getting from the medication was making that dream seem unattainable. Hell, I couldn't even count on myself to be the best doctor I could possibly be now, yet alone one who could think up cures for diseases.

And so I fell back into that spiral of doubt. I got scared again. What if I never got back to being as sharp as I was before?

But a few words from my doctor a few days ago took away that fear. 

Those words were very much like what he first told me (that the good news is you're 17 and you have leukemia, but the bad news is, you're 17 and you have leukemia) and was HOW I'd realised that you always had a second way of looking at things.
He told me of a professor of his while he was studying maths (before he decided to do medicine of course) who'd told him that any problem was solvable. All you had to do was take a step back and approach the problem from another direction, from another perspective, over and over again until things became clear.

The same thing I'd realised myself... in someone else's words. 

And so I started looking at my current situation a little differently.  

Maybe I'd end up getting bad marks in my upcoming exams because I just couldn't grasp the logic behind things or remember things as well as I used to. But for the rest of my life, I would have the knowledge that I could still pass in a very hard course while my brain wasn't even functioning properly. 

Why should I stress out over exams that I physically was incapacitated for? Wasn't that only harming myself and wasting time I could put towards getting a few extra marks?

After exams were over, why should I stress about the results? What would that stress achieve other than making me feel bad about myself? It definitely couldn't change the results.

Why was I worrying about the side effects of the medication? I was confused and drowsy right now, but that doesn't mean those side effects would stay with me in the long term. It was because I was put on the maximum dose without any build-up or weaning into it that I was having these symptoms in the first place. Worrying about it wasn't accomplishing anything other than making me feel bad... so why do it?

And so looking at things from another perspective and asking why is helping me to get over the frustration and self doubt that had been building up inside of me for a while. I'm not completely over it yet, I still get angry at myself and depressed when I puff out within minutes of starting a workout, or can't remember things in an exam or when I look at myself in the mirror. But I'm working on it. And I'm feeling happier and happier and less frustrated every day. 


It can be hard seeing another way of looking at things, especially when your brain is against you. It's even harder when you've made negativity a habit, something you reflexively feel and do. But if you can share your feelings with someone else, if you can do positive, reinforcing things like setting an alarm, going for a job or if it comes to it, re-reading these posts when you're at your lowest -  you CAN be happy and you CAN accomplish whatever you want to.

All you've got to do is give it take a step back and give it some time. 


Hopefully the next one won't take as long to post up. This one took a very long time to write with the fuzzy head and I'm honestly not sure if it's that good or if I keep repeating myself... the next one won't take as long hopefully and will probably be about why you can't afford not to give blood.

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Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Dealing with Depression.

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My uncle and his family had come over to visit a few weeks ago, and in the middle of some idle chit-chat, Dad asked us a question.

"What gives you happiness?"  

After a few moments, and a few awkward looks around the room, everyone simultaneously blurted out their response.

"Success," said my uncle.
"My children," said Mum.
"Gaming," began my brother, "And pizza." Typical Nirav.

Dad looked at me expectantly. He'd already asked me this a few weeks ago, and I knew why he was asking it now. One of my family members, let's call him Steve, had just been diagnosed with depression - and Dad thought my answer may just help.   

"So, what's your answer, Nikhil? What gives you happiness?"

"I do," I responded.

Everyone was taken aback.
After a few years of bad news, pain and struggle, my perspective on all this was a little different. I'd realised that you always had a choice on how you viewed your life.
"I mean, it's your brain. You control how you respond to things. And me - I choose to not let things affect me negatively, I guess." I continued, glancing at Steve as I said this.

Dad was looking that way too. I guess both he and I expected a sudden flash of realisation to pass through Steve's eyes. But it didn't. He just sat there, looking utterly bored by the conversation, the same expression he had the whole visit really.

What I said made sense to me and to the rest of the family sitting around in the room.
But when you've been wired, emotionally and physically, not to feel anything over weeks, months or even years, it's not like you can change straight away.

That's what clinical depression does.

And after talking to Steve, and a few other friends of mine who are going through it at the moment, it's made me really rethink a few of the misconceptions and attitudes out there about depression...

Here are a few of them.

1) Why can't they Just "snap out of it" and "be happy"?

That's something people going through depression hear a lot.

But think about it this way - don't you think they've tried this already?

 When you're depressed, you get a physiological change that accompanies psychological change in your brain, meaning that the chemicals that are usually released in your brain to make you feel happy aren't performing that function anymore. So a lot of the things that used to give you happiness don't anymore. And  because of that, you find yourself just not caring about things.
The spiral downwards can make patients more likely to go through anxiety at the same time as depression. And when you're worrying about things, yet at the same time can't find the energy or motivation or care to deal with them, it can all build up like a snowball. 

So telling someone going through depression to snap out of it is like me telling you to throw a 10 kilo shotput 20 metres. You know that it is physically possible. Hell, in your youth or at your peak, you may  have been able to do it at some point in your life. But if you were to try it now, you'd probably fail. 

Now imagine if everyone close to you and wider society told you to keep trying, no matter how unfit or how physically impossible it is. Imagine if they sat by, jeering, booing, even screaming at you, as you tried, over and over again to do the impossible. 

That is what someone going through depression feels like when you tell them to be "just be happy". Hopefully, by understanding that, you won't inadvertently kick someone when they're down next time...

2) So, it happens to those going through some form of loss or through some recent dramas right?

Depression can affect anyone, at anytime and there are many things that can cause depression.

Often, it's long term things like unemployment, isolation or loneliness, low self esteem or prolonged exposure to stress at work that can cause it. Recent events such as the loss of a job or poor exam results or a breakup can trigger it, but often there is that underlying cause behind it.

There are a lot of other things that can cause it too. Things like alcohol or drug abuse, medical illness, a family history of it and your personality (being a sensitive person, or a perfectionist for example) can predispose you to higher chances of getting depression.

And in a lot of cases, people just don't know why it's happening. They've been conditioned to feel pity for themselves, to not feel; too used to failing when they try to get better that they don't wanna try anymore. And that can be frustrating as hell.

3) But they seemed happy when I talked to them... I mean... they didn't seem depressed.

A lot of people going through depression  go through phases. They will often go weeks or months feeling and functioning normally until they suddenly get into a rut for a few weeks, where they start to feel less connection to things around them and less enjoyment from things they used to like.

As you know now, when they get into that rut, it's not like they can just climb out straight away. And if you don't know or can't explain why it's happening, if you can't see what's going on, that hill you're trying to climb becomes the sheer wall of a mountain.  

Often people will put on a mask in the form of a second personality to the outside world during this time out of fear of what others think of them. 
In a fair amount of cases, they may even have bipolar disorder, or a milder form of it (cyclothymic disorder) - making them more likely to have more severe shifts in their mood.

They may even deny it. Because it's not the "manly" thing to do. 

In truth though, coming out and admitting you may need help takes more courage than hiding behind a wall. Great organisations like Soften the F*ck Up wanna make that clear. if you're feeling that way... why not check them out? 


4) It's only a sign that they're weak in the mind. I've been through things 10x worse and look at me - I'm fine.

Congratulations...

No, but seriously, good for you.

But when you've been brought up a certain way, when you've been feeling that way for a while and when your brain is literally wired to keep you feeling that way, it's not like you can just change overnight. 

And why should the fact that others have been through worse times make them feel better about themselves? In truth... the shame that makes them feel when they can't do what you did digs them only deeper into that hole. The fact that others' suffer more only makes them more likely to see the world through negative lenses; and push them to even more drastic actions.

5) They're only having a sook. Depression can't actually affect you physically...

As I said before, depression not only changes your thinking, it also changes your brain and body's normal functioning. So not only do you lose motivation to go out, to do work or school stuff or your usual enjoyable activities, you also lose the ability to concentrate, you feel tired and sick all the time and you get other symptoms like headaches, sleep problems and significant weight loss or gain. In severe cases, thing like psychosis and hallucinations are possible as well.

Check out these links for examples of what it feels like to go through depression:


If you've got depression, and if you'd had it for a while, it can seem like it's a pit that you just can't get out of.

But there is a way out. It isn't something that can't be cured. And you CAN be happy.
It will take time, it will take effort, and you may fall a few times on your journey.
But you CAN beat depression.
And here's a few tips on how:

1) First of all - don't be ashamed of it.

Depression affects a lot of people. And if you feel ashamed about having, or maybe having it - ASK YOURSELF WHY.  
Why is it shameful to have a medical condition? As you know now - that's exactly what depression is.

Why should you let what others think dictate you and stop you from trying to get better? Why should you let what others THINK about you cause you harm?

If other people don't understand your condition - that's just showing you that they don't have the capability of understanding what depression really is. So why should you feel ashamed for their ignorance?

2) Don't be afraid to ask for help.

A lot of people - men in particular - feel that it's something they have to tackle on their own. That asking for help is a sign of weakness or something they don't want, or can't do. Well, you can do it that way.

First of all, why view asking for help as a sign of weakness when in truth, putting yourself out there to someone is a sign that you're not afraid to put yourself out there. 

Why make it hard on yourself?

If you have someone close you can talk to - a friend, family member or partner - be open with them. They'll understand if you tell them how you feel, and having someone to talk with through your journey makes you more likely to beat it and more likely to be happy. If not, that's fine - you can always talk to a psychiatrist, you will have access to resources like www.headspace.org.au or depression hotline (depending on where you live) and you'll always have me as well . Feel free to drop in a comment down below (anonymously if you prefer) or hit me up on facebook/youtube/email as others have before on my blog posts and I'll try to help you out.

If you think it's something you shouldn't talk about openly - that's fine. I mean not everyone thinks its dinner conversation and some people may not know what to say. 
But having at least one person who you can talk to openly during your battle will make you that much more likely to succeed. And if you don't have that person, or aren't too comfortable talking openly about it, here's a great site that helps Real Men get to the deeper issues affecting them. 

If you're scared of taking that first step with someone in real life - here's another site that may help:
https://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome/new/splash

3) Cognitive therapy

A major treatment pathway that psychiatrists use to treat depression is Cognitive therapy. It's where you attempt to fix your current thought processes by confronting and challenging them, and replacing them with a more positive, better outlook. It isn't an easy process, it takes time and effort and it REALLY helps to do it with someone you can trust.

But the hardest part is the first few weeks, those first few steps. Once you muster up the energy and will to try and get better and get past the first few weeks, things WILL get easier.  

In the end you've got to believe one thing. You CAN beat it.
That word depression is a useful label. It allows people to understand that what they're going through isn't fake. It's a real problem. With real solutions.
But that label becomes a liability when you let it define you. 
Never do that. 

If you, like millions of others around the world, really find yourself wanting to break free of depression, then:

 i) Take a step back and analyse yourself
ii) Acknowledge that your journey forward may be hard and long. But realise that instead of getting scared of that fact or making excuses not to try, doing this will ensure that you won't give up at times when you may feel like everything's against you.
iii) Challenge any notion you see that is negative by asking WHY.

Soon, you'll be able to see another way of looking at things.
And that's the first step to getting better.


Thoughts like "I'm a failure," or "Nothing ever good happens to me," or "There's nothing special about me," are commonly seen in depression and this questioning of self-value or self-esteem can lead to ultimately deadly thought processes like "Life's not worth living."

During my first bone marrow transplant, I was put on a treatment protocol which made me gain a significant amount of weight (20kg in about 2-3 weeks as a matter o' fact), get a moon face and lose a lot of my physical prowess.

I went from being pretty fit and sporty to not being able to run more than a hundred metres without fainting, and I went from looking like this:


To this (I'm the one in the middle):



So when I got back to university and started mixing with people my age who were much more energetic and, well, normal, compared to me, I began to really doubt myself. I'd begun to look in mirrors with disgust at what I now looked like. I kept thinking to myself, "Imagine what other people are saying behind my back." Before I knew it, I began to question myself more and more until I, subconsciously, started making my health an excuse not to go out with friends and have fun.

Whenever I got to doing exercise, I'd always do so under the cover of night or where people were less likely to watch in fear of what others would think about my huge level of unfitness, or worse yet, I would opt out of doing any at all because people would see me and laugh at me.

I was getting frustrated all the time, and I was began to hate myself. But then, one day, I took that step back and I asked myself why.

Why was I afraid of what other people were thinking of me?
First of all, were they even thinking about me in the first place? I mean, when I walk down the street, other than noticing a few finer specimens of the fairer sex, I don't really take too much notice of other people unless they're literally about to walk into me.

Even if they were thinking "WOW, what an ugly bastard," - Why was I letting their thoughts affect me? In the end, wasn't I putting myself down in order to please someone else - most of the time, complete strangers - over something I couldn't control?
I did the same thing with my exercise patterns and I found myself more comfortable running around over the next few weeks. I did little things at first - like walking few laps around my suburb and saying hi to people (most people are friendly and just say hi back - like you probably would) and soon I was comfortable enough to start running again.

Along the way - it was frustrating. I'd go weeks on end not gaining any fitness whatsoever and seeing no changes at all.  But each time I felt that way, I challenged that thought process and got to a stage where I realised that, maybe not now, maybe in a few months, I'd be back to being better. 
So why get frustrated that I was not getting there quickly? In the end that'd only cause me to stress (which is huge in reducing your progress) and if anything push me to overexerting or even injuring myself, which would only make my journey longer.

It was hard at first. I found myself looking over my shoulder and wondering what others were thinking about me all the time. I did it the hard way - I didn't talk to anyone about it.
But, over a few weeks, taking that step back, acknowledging the obstacles in my path and challenging my doubts allowed me to become comfortable with who I was.

I know that my depressive mood was self imposed and not the same as being depressed for years on end. I've come to experience real depression since I've written this, and will be writing about it soon... so hopefully my insights from the inside out can help you even further. While I write it up though - I'm always happy to talk - do so here or on my other links.

But if you think that you just can't do what I'd done in your battle with depression - ask yourself why.

Those thoughts you may have that stop you from trying to break free of its hold - those thoughts  of being a loner, of being  too stupid or dependent or scarred... that idea that you're worthless or don't have the energy... aren't they just reasons you're giving yourself to not try? 
If you really believe they're true and that it is a good reason to stop it - then why put yourself down over them? Isn't that just stopping you from doing what's logical - making an effort to change yourself for the better?

It is hard - it may take weeks or months to change yourself. There may be times when you fall back into pits. 

But if you talk to someone about it and give it time, you CAN get better.   

You're the end result of millions of generations of evolution. The very fact you exist, and that you can hear, touch, see and simultaneously  feel is incredible. Even if no-one else in the world recognises it - I think you're amazing.

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